tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7889550743994940314.post632031007983077031..comments2023-05-26T07:38:18.040-07:00Comments on gay friendship: Fart!Thttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07010105665796027175noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7889550743994940314.post-85581495794926880862011-12-01T23:44:12.371-08:002011-12-01T23:44:12.371-08:00Oh my goodness. Are you sure you mean to say &quo...Oh my goodness. Are you sure you mean to say "fart"? I can think of another "f" word. H-m-m-m. But that wouldn't fit the old guy or the kids. Nevermind. Stick with fart.<br /><br />Anyway, I must have missed some comments. Time for a re-read.<br /><br />I love reading about your love for each other. I sure hope you can get together sometime. <br /><br />And, for the record, TwoLives, I don't know what you said here . . . but don't beat yourself up too much. I know you are a very supportive and thoughtful blogger friend to many.<br /><br />I wish peace and contentment to everyone (and I'm not even a hippy!).JustAMikehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02304812477710391158noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7889550743994940314.post-4829519591106398212011-11-30T11:23:46.840-08:002011-11-30T11:23:46.840-08:00T - I apologize for offending you. That was not m...T - I apologize for offending you. That was not my intent. Nor was I suggesting that Jim should leave you. Rather, I was encouraging you to give him some reassurance sooner rather than later. Why? Because loneliness feeds on itself and I fear for Jim's feelings in the future. Expressing my fear in that regard is completely different than saying that I think he should leave you. I believe you misread what I said and I apologize for not being more clear. My fault. Feel free to fart in my direction any time.TwoLiveshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05801244463128618355noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7889550743994940314.post-28890932550468586522011-11-30T03:22:03.598-08:002011-11-30T03:22:03.598-08:00T... I think you are very sensible! Go ahead and ...T... I think you are very sensible! Go ahead and vent! fart fart fart!<br /><br />What makes it more ironic and ridiculous is that one of the people who was giving advice (and does so on many different married-gay-guy blogs) has a living situation with his wife which is the most fucked-up thing ever.Buddy Bearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18052407067718899985noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7889550743994940314.post-10316501761654893962011-11-29T07:21:43.340-08:002011-11-29T07:21:43.340-08:00Everyone has opinions T, we may not always like th...Everyone has opinions T, we may not always like their opinions, but it is only human nature. I am not conventional at all. I believe that you and Jim have agood foundation to your relationship. Don't let peoples opinions get to you.<br /><br />Is it hard living a lone. Yes, it is. But does everyone have to move in together, and live together to be happy. No. I am not good with remembering those everyday sayingd, but isn't there a saying that says distance makes the heart grow fonder?<br /><br />Anyways, I am sorry for negative comments. I for one am rooting for your relationship with Jim. I don;t think living together right or not is any reason to break up. You two will work things out when the time is right.<br /><br />My counselor said one side of the coin you have control (living together right now), the other side of the coin is confidence (knowing you will someday). For me I am working on my confidence side. I am gald to see you and Jim have the confidence I do not.<br /><br />AWILTAGMAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com